What your SPH kink says about you (a deeper look)

"I bet you jerk that little shrimp with 2 fingers, just like this..."

Does size matter? It definitely does, but SPH is about more than measurements.

If you've spent hours of your life twitching while a beautiful Woman on your screen insulted your so-called 'manhood', or even reading this post is making you strangly horny, you probably have an SPH (small penis humiliation) fetish.

Overall, SPH is very straightforward- anxiety about not 'measuring up' in the world of phallic sizes becomes a potent source of excitement and eroticism. Psychologically, all attention is 'good' attention, and if you're not going to ever get a wet ovation from a partner for what you're packing down there, you might as well get off to the idea of someone humiliating you for it-- at least they're looking, right?

However, there are three often overlooked aspects to SPH that must be understood to make the most of this conflicted but common fetish:

Let's talk about 'displacement' and social classification.

ONE: Anxious Displacement

In Psychological terms, 'displacement' is when someone has a lot of negative emotional complexes around a certain aspect of their existence that is 'too much' for them to face, so they 'displace' these onto another subject, one they can engage with more easily. In many ways, displacement is the fundamental behavior behind lots of kinks, and also something very commonly seen in FemDom when subs place their internal anxieties onto their relationship with their Domme, but I won't go into that right now.

Within Small Penis Humiliation, a core belief is that a lack of size and girth is the source of a man's romance woes, and even the explanation for why he might feel behind in life- his competition is other men who are 'packing' a lot more physically, which also means that they are better suited to be successful in the world. While I also believe that there's a severe loss of potency when a man has a small penis, the deeper truth is that many with an SPH kink actually displace their feelings of inadequacy onto their little willy....even though that is not the source of their problems. In fact, that tiny collection of sad little centimeters actually ends up being a stand-in for the scarier source: personal failing.

It's easier to say that ones struggles in life are due to something beyond their control rather than having to wonder if maybe 'it's just you'. While it's terribly finalizing to accept that having a small wang means you'll never go far in life, it's comforting to a psyche too fragile to admit that ones problems in life are actually due to personal failure-- but it's true. "Women don't like me because I'm not hung" is easier than "Women don't like me because I have a pathetic personality". "I'm not that successful because I'm smaller than other men" is easier than "I'm deeply immature and lack the confidence and discipline necessary to pursue my dreams". If you can't change it, if there's nothing you can do, you're off the hook. You can stay home, goon to clips, and abandon your hopes like everyone else abandoned you.

But that's not the only thing lurking beneath the SPH kink.

TWO: The Auxiliary Male

Ask yourself a question: Are all men entitled to mating & reproduction privileges? The answer is a resounding 'no'. The very existence of natural selection, competition and choice means that no, not all men will pass on their genes, much less be pleasing to Women. But what if I told you that a small phallus could be a sign that you were part of a human sub-gender that is not meant to compete amongst the other males? What if you have a different purpose?

When I say 'sub-gender' I evoke gender concepts common in other cultures and times where gender and social role were conflated with many different nonbinary possibilities. There can be feminine, bottom men, women who act as 'head of household' and only marry other women, etc. Many studies show that in large families, the youngest sons will be gay and usually effeminate. In many species, there are males who do mate, but gain access to Females by forgoing competition and mimicking them to get closer. Point being, gender as a social position goes far beyond 'men and Women'-- what if YOU are a sub-gender meant to have a different relationship towards Women?

THREE: Genetic Karma

If you're a white male, there is also another issue at play, and this one isn't your fault, but it is your karma.

For eons, Female choice was able to function as the guideline for the human population, managing culture and growth. Patriarchy upsets this system, creating a world where instead of Women choosing men for their life-supporting traits, men are force-selected according to patriarchal values that are individualistic and life-negating. As such a system grew and evolved, we end up with Colonialism and Capitalism, which impart their own cultural values on the process. What does all this mean? Generations of traits being selected and passed down based not on who was actually the healthiest, the most pleasing to Women (and therefore good for the human population), or the most genuinely impressive, but on who owned the most property, who appeared less 'undesirable' based on arbitrary racial notions that often villified strength, darkness and even large penises as 'animalistic', etc. So after generations and generations of this...well, unnatural selection produced a gene pool of men with smaller organs who were also less competitive overall, less desirable physically, and less able to appeal to Women. While the artificial choice system may have held for a while, nothing made out of balance with nature can last, which is why you're here reading this, with not enough sitting between your legs and wondering what you can do about it. If this theory in particular speaks to you, I would suggest listening to this file.

The Inches Clinic SPH series is popular for a reason...

In the end, I think a kink like SPH is neither good nor bad. What matters is understanding why you have it...and how to leverage that for the best life possible.

To scratch the itch no doubt given by getting through this essay (congrats!), enjoy My immersive SPH RP series 'The Inches Clinic' where a visit to find out about a new male enhancement technique ends up being far more than you bargained for...Use headphones, because this series includes ASMR and mindwashing as potent ingredients to turn you into your ideal self (according to Dr. Starlight!)

-- Goddess Elixa Starlight, THE Godwitch

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