Finding your Feminine through Fetish

What you crave to experience in FemDom, you crave to embody.

Whether it’s the silky sensation of pantyhose or the thrilling crush of bikini clad humiliation, there’s something about your fetishes that leads you to a part of your mind that begs to be opened and explored; a part that seems at odds with the life you live on a daily basis.

It seems a stark contrast to not only the way you view yourself, but the way you’re seen at work, at home, and with your friends. No matter how well people know you or how often they see you, there’s an entire face you have that only shows when you’ve gone to that place you explore on nights and weekends.

You’ve tried to resist, perhaps out of moral shame or a sense of self preservation, knowing that this urge has a strangely powerful hold on you. But no matter what you do to keep yourself away, the resolve breaks again and again.

At some point you must admit— a need is a need, and submission is yours. But why? And why this way?

The world you live in today is, regrettably, a world predominately controlled by and catered to men, and this sets a stifling precedent: there is a part of you yearning for expression that is locked away, trapped within, and your desires are leading you to its liberation.

For those that crave simple explanations: The Goddess Guidance series is what you need.

Of course, the blind cannot successfully lead the blind; thus— who better to lead you to this but a Domme?

You seek a ruler of Feminine domain to guide you through all that is hidden, deep, sensitive, and even mystical- the Feminine embodied.

While you may be a man, a ‘regular guy’ as so many of you claim, every person has hidden within them a touch of that which seems to be their opposite. This yin and yang entanglement means that no matter how ‘masculine’ you are, no matter how well you fill the roles expected in your manhood, there is a space deep inside you that craves the opposite.

In My time as a Domme, I’ve noticed that the most intense cases of what I call ‘gender collapse’ have been with men who from the outside were doing ‘the best’ at living their manhood- these men are the most successful, the most well-networked, high-paid and empowered. They claim they have no issue getting dates (but don’t want them), enjoy tons of financial freedom (but don’t enjoy it anymore), and have lost something they don’t know how to get back. Having climbed the staircase of Adult Male Success, they reach the top and find…nothing.

At the top there is nowhere to go but down.

Those that fear surrender to an Ebony Goddess will never win the prize of true transformation.

Down. South. Deep. Dark. All aspects of the Feminine. Through this collapse one spirals into a sensual wonderland tunnel of contrasts— softness, submission, yielding. The release of accumulation, power, money and control leads you to giving, surrender, and deprioritizing the self. For all its magnetic pull, this spiral means nothing until you ask yourself: Why does it feel so good?

What is it about surrendering your power that feels so arousing? What does it mean that you fantasize about giving up your earnings to a Black Woman just to watch Her luxuriate in them? Why is it that you find it thrilling to exchange your white collar for Mine, and a pair of panties?

In truth, you can find the answers yourself…but if you would like a guide…you know how to find Me.

-- THE Godwitch, Elixa Starlight

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