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No Nut November & Men's Need for Devotion

  • Writer: Godwitch Elixa Starlight
    Godwitch Elixa Starlight
  • Nov 14, 2025
  • 4 min read
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Every Fall, men around the world engage in a viral meme-gone-ritual called #NoNutNovember. This month-long show of will challenges men of all ages to avoid orgasm, or even masturbation and adult content; the latter is a virtuous stretch, but it's also far easier to stick to the gameplan if one avoids the habits that lead to a messy clean up in the first place.


After years of this canonized online tradition, another month was added ahead of the date via social media in the form of #Locktober, a 31 day warmup in the form of a chastity challenge. A favored holiday of lock and key enthusiasts everywhere, whether Domme, sub or Switch, Locktober’s big-o lent is made easier (for some) by the fact that a steel cage and tiny key keep the lucky subject from being able to make a mistake- the same cannot be said for No Nut November. With only the online community of men to support, each adherent is on his own when it comes to saving his seed.


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The popularity of these orgasm-fasts and increased interest in semen retention for health and spiritual reasons in the past years speaks to a growing curiosity among men for practices that have long been part of men’s maturation and development for centuries. In asking why this is the case at our current moment, we find a deeper thread of wisdom, corruption and spiritual alchemy.


Let’s start with the wisdom.


Virtually every spiritual and philosophical tradition across time and nations has said that men are at their best- even to the point of achieving mystical powers- when they renounce all lustfulness and learn to control their sexual urges. Whether part of a religious sect or following a hermetic tradition somewhere in the mountains, refraining from self-pleasure (or at least learning how to do so in a more regimented and trained manner) has been ‘step one’ to men’s internal evolution for thousands of years.


Withholding one’s seed is said to lengthen lifespan, increase energy, promote better health and even unlock higher levels of consciousness, depending on which mystery school you follow. No matter what road led a man to semen retention, they all gather at supercharging one’s body, mind and soul.


One thing to note is that most traditions around such chastity outside of Abrahamic religions or various priesthoods do not require strict abstinence from pleasure or intimacy, but rather offer timing calendars and strict conditions under which one could engage, ensuring that sexual energy was always converted into something potent and alchemical rather than something that drained and weakened a man. Many Tantric and Daoist traditions are well-known examples here, In its simplest sense, this kind of responsibility and spiritual hygiene turned men away from degenerate behavior and interpersonal misconduct— it’s no wonder adherents quickly saw valuable improvements in their minds, health and finances.


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Discipline is the key to success.

But here comes the corruption: in short, mystical men are harder to control, and Empires don’t like that.


So we find ourselves in the current time, where men as a whole have declined from the pursuit of noble traits and now struggle not to waste the vast majority of their time and money on impulse and vices with a terrible ROI. Mystical sexuality and divine partnership devolved, trickled out into the common man’s erotica, further degrading in the present day to the pervasive and cloying presence of social media porn selling itself endlessly on your feed. The biggest platforms for this fast-food sexuality are owned by billionaires that fund some of the most malignant entities and organizations in our world. And amidst the cheapening of sensuality lies a secret tactic- take the vanguard of focus, intention, and structural action; the main group tasked with the embodiment of a culture’s masculine values, and make sure that instead of having the time, energy and moral direction to stand up for what is right in the present, and build the future as directed by the Feminine, they just sit at home, festering in dark corners of the internet being trained to hate women, but objectify them for hours on end while draining their own vital energy. The weaker they become, the less they stand for, and the more feeble their minds. The loop feeds itself.


Destabilized and retrained, the average man today has had within him implanted a hunger and dissatisfaction that is not only manufactured, but then in turn used to yank him this way and that, to lead him about like a bull with a nose ring. The deepest needs— to matter, to have purpose, to work towards something meaninful— all usurped in order to fuel The Machine and no matter what, they never resolve. Why? Because the demands society entraps men with in our shallow, fast-paced society are all pale substitutions of their deeper need for devotion.


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As I’ve spoken about before, men are deeply prone to express themselves through externalized devotion, using it as a much needed disciplinary structure and the scaffolding for their acts of love and valor. Without it, the same urges exist, but in a lost and aimless form; easily violated, weaponized and utilized for less noble means.


Dedication. Effort. Loyalty. Belief. Commitment. All of these things spoil when assigned to the wrong subjects...or the wrong leader.


Now at this point, you are either curious about what else I may have to say or your mind is not ready or willing to see such a truth. I must tell you that what there is to speak about cannot be said in public spaces such as this site, but I will- as requested- be divulging more in My members area. For now, I ask you— do you want to evolve further? Do you want to break the barrier of commonality that limits and oppresses the average man? To whatever extent you say 'yes', understand that such a path of power and transformation has a cost…You must give to receive. Sacrifice is the key. So…How long can you go without orgasm?



-- THE Godwitch, Goddess Elixa Starlight



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