The Truth About Your FemDom Fetishes

'The Long Fall' is a classic clip that epitomizes the pantyhose mindfuck.

After the initial wave of refreshing indoctrination and mental re-training My subs go through after beginning their submission journey with Me, men are faced with their first inner conflict: Is it still okay to have these fetishes?

My Disciplines- The Godwitch Way, The Lunar and Stellar Tantras, etc- are built on the following philosophy: The presence of FemDom as a kink is an intentional subversion of the natural inclination men (and Women!) have to serve and honor Women; it is a vestigal tendency left behind after the rise of patriarchy saw the entities we now know as 'The Church' and Western State willfully demolish Goddess temples and punish those who honored said Goddesses.

Since it is impossible to fully eradicate the human desire to see Women as being living Goddesses to adore and obey, it serves patriarchy to simply subvert and disguise this desire. Hence the 'objectified Goddess' found in strip clubs, dungeons and clip sites.

However, once I pull away this veil, many men end up confused as to the role or value of fetishes common to these contemporary FemDom spaces. Hosiery and pantyhose, high heels, humiliation. If all of these are simply part of FemDom, and FemDom is a cheap patriarchal shadow of Goddess Worship, then are they....bad now?

Long-time devotees will recognize these glittery ebony legs in pantyhose. Search here for more!

Silly boy. No.

They are just superficial. The important thing is to understand what they are superficial to. To understand this, you must shift your perspective-- you see, the reason FemDom can be criticized at all is only due to the extent to which the 'objectified Goddess' is decentered from Her own space: in FemDom, the man, the client, is the actual center. This increases more with FemDom as a digital industry, AKA clip site culture. In this framework, it is more important to reward a man's fetishism, and whittle that fetish down to an object (latex catsuit, pleaser heels, pantyhose...cock cage etc) that then becomes the vessel for his redirected energy.

That these object fetishes are enticing is not at all the problem. That the Goddess has been removed from the center of it all, is the actual crime. So what is the solution?

Perspective shifts, of course.

Less "I am a man with a pantyhose fetish so I want a Domme to cater to me" and more "I find pantyhose arousing because they are a contemporary symbol of the Female figure, and even Feminine power." In short, you have to stop seeing Women as walking talking mannequins for your fetish objects, and see the objects as being reflections of the Woman.

When order is restored, amazing things happen.

-- Goddess Elixa Starlight, THE Godwitch

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